7.15.2014

HELP! I'm Shrinking!

I've been growing my hair out for some time now, and I have to admit: it can be discouraging sometimes. However, while showing some of my friends how my hair is doing since I've been 'washing and going' I measured my stretched and non-stretched hair. I have 50 - 65% shrinkage at any point on my head. The shrinkage is incredible and OH-SO-REAL! Lol

I just love the versatility that my hair has! I've been incorporating henna treatments to strengthen my strands. I haven't been able to rest my laurels on co-washing, and I don't know if I'll ever get there. I will admit, that I'm glad to re-embrace my natural hair.

In a later blog, I'll share what I was told about NOT having relaxed hair. Stay tuned...



The Shrinkage is So Real! 7/3/14

7.13.2014

I Can Wash and Go TOO!!

I never knew I could do it. I never knew I could achieve any type of curl pattern for an extended period of time, but I can. My previous post featured a video of Anthony Dickie's wash and go method. Well, I tried it for an entire week (and took a few photos). I am now going on my third week of washing and going, and I LOVE IT; so much so, that I purchased and read his book Hair Rules! I also purchased and now use the Hair Rules Daily Cleansing Cream which I love!! Stay tuned for product and book reviews soon. I have been reading a few books about hair for some time, and have not provided any reviews...my bad.
Day 1
Day 3
Day 9 (Rear View)
Now back to the matter at hand: the wash and go's will likely be my natural-hairstyle-staple for the summer. I am noticing less fall-out and shedding. The cleansing cream is such a good detangling product, that I don't need to use a comb. My fingers do the job just fine. I have also incorporated some awesome conditioners (which aid in further detangling) and the perfect styling product to capture the curl without a lot of build-up and flaking. I used the method as described by the guru himself. However, I found a few products that work best for me - of which I've highlighted in my wash n go regimen below.


Hair Rules Daily Cleansing Cream Moisture-Rich No-Suds Shampoo



6.16.2014

Tribute

She is the constant thread woven through our life's fabric
Calm, serine, natural, beauty and glowing with the light of Love; she speaks to our lives 
Daily we hear her words of wisdom, gentle prodding to excel in all things we are inspired to do
She's the supreme cheerleader, and she has more than the legs for it
She has the hips for it and the march that orders the path before her 
Ever promising to be the blueprint
She is you
She is me

6.08.2014

Power & Influence of the Natural Hair Movement

Did you know that YOU are changing how hair care products are being marketed recently? Yes. YOU-the one who decided to accept the way your hair grows out of your scalp-yeah, YOU. Have you perused through your local hair care retailer to see numerous product lines (once marketed to women with chemically-treated afro/ethnic hair), now expanding to include products to style afro/ethnic hair in it's natural texture (e.g., Aphogee)? It is unprecedented to be able to walk into your corner drug store or pharmacy and find a multitude of products specifically designed to further enhance and beautify your hair. Anyone who was hesitant to take the natural plunge, now has the tools and resources readily available. It's incredible. And all you had to do was make the (sometimes brave) decision to wear your hair just how it is.


I wonder what other change you could influence by deciding how (and on what) you are going to spend your money???? Hmmm....



It doesn't stop there...just go to YouTube and search 'natural hair, 3/4/a-c, or anything related to natural beauty'. You will find tubers who show everything from how to care for and style one's own natural hair,  to DIY natural hair care products. You've (in some way) helped to create a rich and supportive community. A community who strives to promote individuality and esteem, without demeaning others whom have not yet made the decision to follow suit. 


Who knows, I may try my hand at creating a tutorial, vlog, etc.  
;-)

By the way, I saw some very interesting footage come across one of my social media feeds...Have you seen the Huffington Post-Black Voices feature on Anthony Dickie's hair regimen method? Did I totally miss this?





Anthony Dickie, sir, please clone yourself! Thank you.

I never thought to do this, but I may give it a try. Have you tried this technique? What techniques do you use to spruce your look?

5.20.2014

4.30.2014

Not News...Retail Coupon Codes

Before finalizing the order confirmation for your favorite clothing items, might I recommend opening a separate window and searching to see if your retailer has a coupon code lurking somewhere in cyberspace. I was pleasantly surprised this weekend while ordering a few items online. I was excited that the items were already on sale, but the 'Frugal Fannie' side of me [I totally dated myself with that reference] could not resist. I just ran a quick check out of pure curiosity. I found a few coupon codes that could apply. I chose the code that offered the greatest savings. I know this isn't news to some of you, but in case you thought coupons were only for groceries or food items...nah. You can find coupon codes out there for just about anything.

You're wondering what I got, aren't you? Just some items from Ashley Stewart! I have a few evening events to attend. Curvy girls can get dolled-up too -- and for a reasonable price! Keeping up with my look without spending too much for fashion essentials (e.g., the standard little black dress captured below). If you are interested, take advantage of the holiday sales and see if any coupon codes can be combined with your purchase. Either way you will save!

4.25.2014

What is Beauty?

PopArt - Lupita Nyong'o by JoeyHazelLM on deviantART
People magazine recently released their Most Beautiful List of 2014. At the #1 spot was none other than award winning and rising star, Lupita Nyong'o. No one [that I am aware of] is surprised to see yet another accomplishment like this for Nyong'o. As I celebrate with her along with other women (and girls) of color for the achievement, I asked myself (as I do with any such list): "What makes her so beautiful?" and further "What is beauty?"

The easy answer is to Nyong'o's beauty may demand that one simply 'look at her!' Her face is symmetrical, so she's biologically beautiful. Her skin is smooth and even as far as the eye can see, so she is dermatologically (it's a word for the purpose of this blog-lol) beautiful. She's the darling of every red carpet in Hollywood. Her accent isn't so thick that the untrained ear is unable to comprehend what she says. Yet, her accent speaks to just how cultured she is -- how worldly she is. She attended and graduated (with honors) from one of America's best schools - Yale University (a trend we are starting to see more of, but that's for a different blog). The point is, she's not just a pretty face. She's got brains and beauty. Apparently, she has personality too. Still, her ability to show such grace and humility isn't all that makes her beautiful.

What is beauty?

It is her ability to own and master all of those things while still knowing that there is more ground to cover. More to attain; to grow; to achieve. The essence of her says it all. It isn't an innocence or naiveté. It's the opposite. It is an unexpected maturity from someone just over thirty years old.

When my brother's eldest daughter was born, we observed that she visibly favored our/his features and darker complexion. I recognized that image issues may be a potential challenge, and I gladly took it upon myself to esteem her as often as necessary (without going overboard-balance is everything). She was and is beautiful - all of his children are. However, we knew that in this society,  standards of beauty vary from what is considered beautiful in our homes. Being Liberian-American, I personally did not experience the negative effects of colorism until I got to school, as family members and friends were (for the most-part) shades of ebony, chestnut and chocolate. Due to my experiences at home, the effects of childhood taunting (as it related to my complexion) did not seem to phase me to the same degree as other girls and boys a similar complexion. So much work had been done at home and within my family's network. I was esteemed in that area. Yes, I recognized that I was darker, but I was also told that I was pretty, smart, talented, humorous and more.

Lupita is beautiful. There is no doubt about that. However, her beauty comes from so much more than what we see.  I hope little girls (and the little girls within) strive to enhance the internal beauty that all are capable of sharing with the world.

It is so important for all to be represented on mainstream media outlets for this very reason. My niece is all grown up now. She recently told me that Lupita Nyong'o was one of her favorites -- already. It's amazing, and I love it. Her family esteemed her as a little one. Now Lupita and others like her, are reinforcing what we've known all along: that you can be beautiful no matter what the conventional standard dictates.

Watch this endearing exchange between veteran and emerging beauty icons, Alek Wek and Lupita Nyong'o (respectively): 


Be beautiful.


4.21.2014

Moving Forward

I know, I know. I've been long gone, and haven't given an update. My life got a little crazy (okay a LOT crazy). In the chaos of it all, I forgot to pay attention to me. Thank God, things are much better now. Though fashion, makeup and hair are still interests (and will still be featured on the site), content has expanded to include health and [possibly] fitness -- for obvious reasons. I've gained a lot of weight and have noticed other physiological declines (i.e., skin, hair health, etc.). Things are settling. I'm on my way to wellness, and I'm inviting you along for the ride. It is not fair to readers for me to blog about image, if I am not focusing on making mine the best it can be. The format of this blog will not change very much, and I will still feature the things I love -- I'll just also be including some additional features related to life+style.

This IS a lifestyle blog. :-)

You've likely guessed, N.Videl is rebranding. Stay tuned to see how things change with me and the site. Feel free to share your feedback. Chat with you soon!

Moving forward,
N.
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